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Hey,

So this is a really simple way of letting her know she isn’t the only girl for you without making yourself out to be a douche. Scarcity is actually a business technique on getting people to not take an advantage of the product, and in this market you are selling yourself to the girl, and in a mutual way she is selling herself to you. By using scarcity you are letting her know there could potentially be with other people and she isn’t so significant and she has to show her true personality, her true self to impress you because not everyone does. It creates a bit of social proof and confidence, everything falls together in perfect harmony when scarcity is used correctly and when you don’t use this, she will see you as needy and you fall into the category as every single other guy has fallen into.

Have somewhere to be- In pick-up it’s a good way to let the group you are approaching know you can’t just stick around, especially in the day. in the bar or club its probably fine considering bars and clubs are places to socialize, but as far as going out in the day people start to wonder how long you are going to stay because they have a place to be to. so letting someone know “I gotta get to a meeting soon, but I had to say hi to you.” will go a far way.

Be a busy guy- As I said before, DO SOMETHING, I can’t stress it enough. Have goals and go do them. This is probably the most important thing on scarcity, not only good for your own life, but the scarcity will be REAL rather than just faking it out. Don’t treat a girl you just met like she is the number one thing in your life, it will only drive her away. Find what you like to do and go drive yourself to your goal being an all around person is attractive.

Not answering your phone It doesn’t hurt to be unavailable sometimes, so you can stop babysitting your phone. Not answering texts right away or letting the phone ring more than once will give her the hint that you’re not eager to talk to her but u still answer so it shows you’re still interested in her. If you really are pacing back and forth waiting for her call like how I use to be and lunging at the phone at first ring, it’s better to maybe leave your phone at home once in a while and go out and try meeting new people.

Play hard to get- Everyone loves a little challenge, get her to wonder if she likes you and you won the game my friend. Make jokes about them moving too fast too soon or touching you. Don’t push her away, just give her mixed signals. My girlfriend still tells me how I giver her mixed signals to this day. It’s who I became and it’s kind of fun and really flirty.

End the call- Girls can talk for hours and hours and hours and hours; let them know you got to go soon, before it gets too late. A good first phone call can range from 5 minutes to 45 minutes, but don’t just stick to that, test it out for you. Try letting her know as soon as you two get on the phone that you have got something to do or you need to head to sleep early for something tomorrow. It shows your comfortable letting her know that she (a person you met for a couple of minutes at the mall) isn’t the number one thing in your life.

Just be friends- i met this one guy I use to go to the club with, his main thing was to beat the girls to the punch line “you are nice and all but I think we should just be friends first” yeah, you know how that hurts you when a girl says it to you. Imagine putting them in those shoes, when used correctly this can be very powerful because it can show you lost attraction for her and you think she wants more.

Keep options open- Know she may not be “the one” for you. I like to tell my students that you are only finding out if she is the one for you, that’s the whole process of dating. You are looking for people, and picking out the one you want, not settling for the first girl then you bump into. Sit down right NOW and write out what you want in a girl, in every area, what she’s like, what she likes to do. And that gets you to think of girls differently. You will be looking for your kind rather than just anything you can get. That is a powerful tool.

So you know it is a really important to make things challenging, and it’s not just me that thinks that, its WOMEN that think that too. Yeah, and a good friend of mine actually went around recording women confessing what they want in a man and how they want them to act. Since this product isn’t mine I don’t know how long it’s staying up so you might as well watch the video now, it might educate you. http://bit.ly/ME29ZL

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Ace of Love

So here is the thing when it comes to that. Let’s think of this scenario.  You are just starting to interact with people, maybe you are new to pick up, maybe not, whatever the case. You start talking to girls and she seems really interested in what you have to say and you guys are getting along but you are still not sure if she likes you or not so you keep asking yourself, maybe a mutual friend, whatever the case “does this girl like me or not” but you don’t want to hint at the question and it would be way to painful to ask her. What the hell do you do? How do you find out? What are the signs?

Attraction is quiet simple, but complex if you are asking yourself this question. You will defiantly know when she likes you back, she will be laughing at your jokes, even the bad ones, she will be flirtier such as touching you rather if she’s meaning to or not, she will even sometimes turn the conversation sexual. Girls as well as guys go for what they want. But the thing is, if you keep asking that question “does she really like me.” the reality is you are just giving her all the power when you should be leading it on and believing as if she is and test the waters little by little, the things I just said she would do earlier in this paragraph? Yeah, you should be doing that too. And if she goes along with it then your good, move a little farther, and a little farther until she is all yours or to the point where you can actually decide if she is really meant for you or not.

Talk to, and act as if you are already sleeping with the woman, and then you soon will be.

So remember, you give her the power and will soon lose her if you continue to think “does this girl like me or not?” when you should be thinking “I got this far, now let’s see if I can get a little farther” because as much as we would love to just turn the attraction switch on, it’s more like a dimmer switch, you must slowly turn it on. Such as the story of the frog in the boiling water, you put a frog in boiling water and he immediately jumps out, though if you put the frog in room temperature water and then crank up the heat on low the frog will slowly die. Attraction is a stacking skill, not an on off skill set.

If you want to know how attraction really works you can check out a program a friend of mine made where he goes into depth on the principles of attraction. It’s a very good read. http://bit.ly/M30yfM

I hope you really benefited from this article to help me out, simply repost, comment or like this, thanks!!

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Ace of love

The legend of comedy, this is more of a joke blog that I normally don’t do, this guy is pure jenius, actually, to get warmed up when I first started I actually did some of the stuff he did (dis-regard the pants less piano playing) I felt like I was actually having fun going out and sarging rather than just getting stressed about APROACH ANXIETY!

Yuk, I hate that word. But its true, you really feel it when you don’t even know what girls really want. People (especially guys that think they know what they are talking about) go around giving other guys “advice” that really just sets others apart. Wouldn’t it be great if you got advice straight from the horse’s mouth? (No pun actually) check this guy out because he actually went around INTERVIEWING girls on what they want in a guy, I looked threw this and let me tell you. It sounds pretty damn legit and honest. http://bit.ly/ME29ZL

How to know if the PUA Method is CRAP!

When I first started studying pick up it was the real earlier days, back when the mystery method first came out pretty much. When it was a step by step method, scripted lines and routines, where it was like you know where you start and it was like steps on how to get a girlfriend or into bed, And it worked consistently but then everyone started finding about this pick up artist community. Now not only the secret society of men know about the pickup artist community but also thousands of men AND women through the news, New York times best seller lists, abc’s20/20, and we are in a new age of pick up where we have to be learning.

It is really important we know the new techniques and they aren’t just a step by step with scripted lines because not only do they get saturated with people using them but step by step techniques don’t work and you can get more and better results when you treat each women as an individual, and move at the pace that she goes.

So there are a few different precautions you should take before looking into pick up. It’s really important or you could potentially fall behind or worse, use a pick up artist line that has been used on the girl before and she calls you out on it.

1. No scripted lines- as I said before, they get saturated. I’ve been called before; my friend has been called out before. Especially when you are reading them out of a book from barns n nobles.
2. Being a natural- anyone can learn lyrics to a song. But a real singer knows how to freestyle on the spot!
3. An easy attraction method- when pick up first came out and there were complicated steps that didn’t even cover everything. There were 9 steps, some retards realized some steps were missing so they say “okay, lets add more steps and charge more money.” What I have to say? Assholes… our brains can’t remember that many steps. 4 is a good number.
4. Good motivation- anyone can learn about anything if they put their mind to it. But it takes real coach to make sure the student takes the action and keep it up consistently.

But it’s not just about what you know, it’s also, and more importantly is practice. Even if you don’t end up going and taking advice from a coach (and taking short cuts that could have taken you years to get the same results) the most important thing you can do is practice and learns from your mistakes. Keep a log so you can track your progress.

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yeah, I just went there. this guys is pretty damn sweet. That is what I call a natural. I just thought I would share this with everyone. I’v talked to him a few times. this is the kind of stuff you really need to be looking out for if you want to be attract women and getting results like this kind of guy.

in regards of meeting meeting beautiful women in the day time naturally you can check out this book  The Natural: How to Effortlessly Attract the Women You Want

Talk soon,

Ace of Love

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Yeah, this is going to be a crazy awesome blog because I’m going to be going more in depth than i normally do but it’s still going to be simple, mostly because that is all you need. You don’t need to clog your brain with useless general info; I’m here to deliver you stuff you can go out right now and use.

This blog is going to be broken up into 2 parts.

What is confidence?

How do I get more?

Because that’s all you really want, right? Cool.

it all starts with, what is confidence? We all think of it as this thing we have to set out to get this thing we need to obtain before we can pick up chicks and take them into bed. Some of us believe we will never have it. i know because i was this was. i thought i would never have confidence with women. But what I’m telling you now is you can be confident with women at any second. Other dating coaches and pick up artists might not tell you, at least right off the bat because they want money for it. But I’m a cool guy that says “fuck it”

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Cool right? And most people believe there is no other choice but to feel how they feel. they have their feelings on autopilot and they can’t control them, when you control your emotions you control your life. a feeling is hugely governed by your thoughts, when you feel an emotion it’s because you thought of something as positive or negative.

And a belief is just a chronic thought. Meaning it’s what you keep thinking over and over again. and this bit of info is the key to having any belief system you could ever want. because we all live (even me) with limiting beliefs that hold us back from something we want. so when its picking up chicks even I sometimes thing “she’s too hot” but a battle that thought in my head by backing it up with “I’ve gotten a girl like her before, I’m certain I can again”

did you ever think it was the fact that you said you can’t do it that made you feel bad that made you not want to go talk to that chick? Wouldn’t it be great if you could learn what it takes to get the confidence to talk to her? Wouldn’t that be helpful? Good.

So how do you really change a belief?

I’m not really sure where this originated from, either Anthony Robbins or David Shephard maybe even someone else. but here is the Belief Cycle:

I.E. Poor beliefs

we all start off with what we think we can do based on what we did before, so let’s say you never even held a girl’s had and girls throw rocks at you or whatever. You probably have a weak belief. Well that will affect your potential on picking up chicks. you won’t put your all into it because you thin “well what’s the point?” and that effects your action (if you even take any) and she rejects you or she gives you a nasty look which is your Result and which anchors your belief even more by your brain saying “see, I told you. you are too ugly and can’t pick up chicks” and you have an even worse belief then you did before.

I.E. Strong Beliefs

Now let’s say you find something like one of my products, or you join my Eros Academy and you see a testimonial or whatever the case is. And you think “wow, this stuff looks like it could really work!” well, see that just gives you a strong belief because you have proof that stuff could work. so guess what, you are told to go out a lot and socialize and try, trial and error, that gives you a strong potential, and the more potential the more likely a girl will hook onto your bait. The more you put effort (potential) you take more action, feel me? and guess what. More sooner than later after some practice you will start to see massive results, maybe a phone number, a DATE or shit, what if you got a girlfriend? and your brain goes “see? I knew I could” and it starts this snowball effect until you end up with a wife and a strong social circle of friends and hanging out every day joining massive party buses or whatever the case.

SO HOW DO I GET MORE CONFIDENCE?

now you know what confidence really is (a feeling and a belief) and you had a taste of how to really get cranking on how important your beliefs are now it’s time to teach you how to really change your beliefs and fooling your subconscious mind.

your subconscious mind can be fooled, how? With emotions, and it’s REALLY REALLY important that you do this because 88% of your mind is controlled by our subconscious mind and leaving a whopping 12% of your mind left to your conscious mind.

First off, as I said before, a belief is just a chronic thought. so one good way of doing this is just intentionally going around saying to yourself out loud or in your head that you can pick up chicks. but this is the important part of this, there are 2 types of doing this and one will work 100 times better.

Affirmations and incantations

An affirmation is like saying something over and over again. But you can do this and not mean anything. You aren’t really even fooling anyone when you are saying this. Not even your own brain. ha! Maybe if you say it, oh I don’t know, maybe like 5,000,000,000 times your brain will say “OKAY OKAY, holy shit man… chill… I’ll believe you. Now shut the fuck up”

There is something more, and this is the important part. Using your emotions when you speak, using your body. Think for a second on what it looks like to be confident….. Good, now copy that. Chin up; use a strut, pretend like you have a cape on your back when you walk around. When you use your emotions and your body when you speak it’s called an Incantation.

Speak and feel as if you have already accomplished your goal and soon you will.

I know this is a lot to take in, but read this blog over and over again until it is anchored into your brain, this stuff is gold and I’ll probably take this down or something when I’m ready to sell something like this. Really own your confidence and soon you will.

Change your body language and jump up and act as if you are already confident. Now by this I do not mean brag to the chicks being arrogant but really own the feeling of confidence. Add emotional intensity to every word you speak of enthusiasm.

What i started doing was flirting with myself in the mirror. (Sounds weird I know) but you MUST LOVE YOURSELF BEFORE ANYONE ELSE LOVES YOU! I use to be so insecure with myself I would literally stand in front of the mirror and pick out how ugly I was. This caused me to be lonely and I ended up being suicidal. Instead, flip it around and have fun with it. Learn to be okay with it because everything is just a belief in your head.

There is always two sides of the stick, one is the negative side and the other is the positive, confident side. What side will you are attending?

Oh! Hey! I almost forgot to tell you, right now I just released a new video series you really have to check out! it tells you:

*10 myths of dating

*what is attraction

*how to get any women in the bar or club walking right up to you

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Ace of Love

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So you all know me by now. Studying some real hardcore pick up artist stuff, so check out what i learn in this book I’m currently reading; we all know that it takes real social skill to pick up chicks but i’d have to say a real good fraction also based on appearance and not just social skill, we all have to look nice and not look like complete slobs, sorry guys but you need to do your hair if you want the girl, at least wear a hat. but i’v been reading this really cool book I think you should check out and I’ll get into some statistics in a second but first i want to talk about (or write about) appearances and not JUST your social skill or looks.

for some reason people tend to drift on “you need good looks to pick up chicks.” But now in the pick up artist community and living in society today we know that isn’t true so now we think “you don’t need looks, you need social skill” that’s all fine and dandy but for the fact that people don’t really take care of themselves and its really setting them back . Dude, just because you know how to talk doesn’t mean you can smell like cheese left out for a week. See where I’m getting at? Some guys don’t know why they aren’t getting the chicks. Appearances do matter, to an extent.

You have to look healthy, think about it. Women spend about 2 hours doing their hair before they go out (believe me I know, if I bring a friend clubbing I need to get in and get out asap because they are bathroom hogs.) they try and look good for us so we need to look good for them. But the structure of our face and dominance facial, cheekbone structure does not matter. So anyway, here are some statistics covered by 5,000 single people that match.com surveyed, here is what they conducted.

What matters for first date?

43% said fresh breath

17% said stylish clothes

15% said sexy fragrance

14% said good skin

10% said great hair

Those are some really powerful statistics you need to take an advantage of. Don’t go around with greasy skin or dead fish breath. Okay? You can get the book I’m reading (pretty interesting) Dr. Z on Scoring: How to Pick Up, Seduce, and Hook Up with Hot Women

Oh! Hey! I almost forgot to tell you, right now I just released a new video series you really have to check out! it tells you:

*10 myths of dating

*what is attraction

*how to get any women in the bar or club walking right up to you

its actually free, no strings, just enter your email and i’ll send it right to you, you can thank me later.

Talk soon,

Ace of Love